Light me up please !

Getting sick of conventional halogen dimmer light? Slap with aftermarket quality Xenon or HID, pump up your ride with brighter light.

Here are the looks after replaced with 4300K OSRAM HID conversion kit. There are alot of el cheapo China made HID which available off the shelf as low as RM150...opposed to PHILIPS conversion kit which is X10 more expensive ! Of course every single cents count, if not because of budget constrain, i would pick Philips rather than cheaper Osram.

Wow, i can see at least 2-3x brighter than Halogen!

Taking someone for granted..taking advantage of someone..ggrrr

Being Taken for Granted….in my words

Taking someone for granted means not cherishing the things someone does for you…it means expecting everything from someone and not giving the same in return…it means never being satisfied with what one has and what one is offered and constantly wanting ‘something else’…it means not appreciating a person for who they are…it means wanting them to be someone else…and unfortunately, more often than not, people don’t even realize when they are taking something for granted…at least not until its too late.

A person is who they are regardless of what you want them to be and if you truly care for someone, then you are satisfied with everything about them…the good and the bad…you cannot make a person someone they aren’t. Some people, admittedly, can be molded and changed into something else more desirable to their ‘inventor’. These people, sadly enough, will eventually become the most unhappy and remorseful people for allowing themselves to be changed into someone they truly are not. However, there are some people that are going to be themselves no matter what and they will not allow themselves to be molded to another’s ideals and desires unless it pleases them. So call these people stubborn and call them too independent….it doesn’t matter….what matters is that they know what they want and they are not going to conform and succumb to what anyone else expects from them unless it is something they want as well. These people will do what makes them happy and that is what is important…they realize that by living up to standards that are not their own, nothing true will be accomplished and doing so is stupid and pointless.

In today’s world, being stubborn (on occasion, of course!!) and being independent are almost necessity. It’s not such a bad idea to be capable of taking care of one’s own responsibilities. Honestly, how much can you really depend on that one person to always be around when you need them? Of course you have to trust people, but how often have we seen people disappoint and hurt others, even if done unintentionally? So wouldn’t it be nice to know that you don’t HAVE to have someone else? I mean, sure it’s wonderful to have someone, and to be wanted, and to feel needed and loved, but it’s not so great to HAVE to have someone. There is a big difference in depending on someone and being dependent on someone for everything.

8種沒結局的愛！

時間可以改變一切！”這話不假，但是放在愛情裡，你就得掂量掂量。如果你現在正在試圖改變你們尴尬的局面，以下8種情況供你參考。沒有結果的愛，該放手還是盡快吧。　


　
一、你在乎對方比較多


　　你在談戀愛，卻不確定對方的想法；你覺得你們很合適，他好像不以為然；他不在時你很想他，你不在時他好像沒差別，這表示什麼？
　　　“二人若不同心，豈能同行呢？”有時候會有一方愛另一方較多的情形，若是在健全的感情中，會有交替的現象，兩人輪流扮演追求和被追求的角色；但如果 有一方總是扮演追求者，這樣的感情不健全，長久下去，你會對愛饑渴，你會覺得受對方控制，你會感到憤怒、受騙、痛苦。
　
　　二、你愛的是對方的潛力


　　你愛的是對方的潛力，而不是對方真正的樣子，你愛的是對方未來可能的樣子，那他根本不是你的伴侶，而是你改造的對象。


　　我們每次作婚前輔導都會問，如果對方五十年內都不會改變，你會滿意嗎？如果你一直希望能改變對方，才覺得比較滿意，那就不是愛，而是賭博，用雙方的快樂當作賭注。
　　　你跟一個人交往時，要愛和尊重對方的本相，而不是他未來的樣子，你可以期望他繼續成長，但你必須滿意他現在的樣子。


　　三、你想要幫助對方

　　　你常覺得對方很可憐嗎？你覺得自己有責任幫助對方振作起來嗎？你會不會害怕如果離開對方，他會受不了打擊？如果是，你恐怕是個“救難狂”。
　　　“救難狂”不會去找一個合適的對象，而是找一個他所同情、可以幫助的對象。找一個受過創傷、脆弱、依賴、不被愛、委屈的人，你由憐生愛，他會對你心生感激，這樣的感情像是一項救援任務，而不是健全、平衡的感情。


　　這裡要牢記的關鍵是“尊重”，你愛的對象必須是你能夠尊重的人，你必須以對方為榮，你的伴侶不要你的救援，而是要你真正了解他。
四、把對方當作崇拜的對象

　　　年輕的女明星愛上導演、大學生愛上教授、秘書愛上老板……，愛上所崇拜的對象，這種感情很難維持正常，因為兩人之間無法平等對待。

　　　男女雙方必須要平等對待，我不是指地位，而是態度，不能過度崇拜對方。會愛上所崇拜對象的人，通常自信心低落，他們覺得自己很糟糕。

　　　五、你只是被對方外表吸引

　　　每個人都會這樣，對嗎？如果你發現自己被對方的某個特質深深吸引，要問自己，若對方沒有那雙藍色的大眼睛、磁性的聲音……，若對方不是模特兒、不會打籃球……，我還會跟他(她)在一起嗎？男人外表才是第一生產力

　　　六、短暫朝夕相處的機會

　　　你和對方分擔某個工作，常常要一起加班，於是你覺得愛上了對方……。你去度假三周，認識一個也來度假的男人，你覺得好象墜入情網……。短暫的朝夕相 處，是指在特殊情況下湊在一塊，並不是常規，這種感情不能持久，因為短時間的朝夕相處，無法使你完全了解對方的個性。

　　　七、為了叛逆才選擇這對象

　　　父母老是跟你強調，要找個有錢的對象，偏偏你每個男朋友都是窮光蛋；從小父母就對你管教嚴格，偏偏你每個女朋友都很隨便；從小父親就耳提面命，傳香火是最重要的事，偏偏你的女朋友不是不能生，就是不想生……

　　　如果你所選的對象，老是令父母生氣，很可能你只是想叛逆，你覺得一定要證明什麼來反擊，當你不能控制自己的選擇，你並不是真心愛對方，這段感情注定沒有結果。

　　　八、對方不是自由身

　　　我把這點留到最後，是因為這根本不能算是感情。選擇終身伴侶的第一個前提是——對方是“自由身”。“自由身”就是可以自由和你交往，沒有結婚、沒有訂婚、沒有固定的交往對象、沒有和別人上床、單身，只和你交往的人。

　　　如果你愛上的那個男人答應會早點和另一個女人分手；或是他說他不愛那個女人，他愛的是你；或是他原來的對象接受你的存在，他們不打算分手，但他想跟你在一起一陣子；或是他剛分手，但可能破鏡重圓……，這些都不是自由身。

　　　別和已婚或有對象的人交往，不管是什麼借口，結果都一樣，你注定要心碎。別忘了，你只是接受了另一個人用剩的部分。

　　　選擇權在你手上，責任在你身上，你要選對人。如果你有交往的對象，而且你是上面談到的八種感情之一，去找輔導，別浪費時間，還有更好的對象在等你

8種沒結局的愛！（

時間可以改變一切！”這話不假，但是放在愛情裡，你就得掂量掂量。如果你現在正在試圖改變你們尴尬的局面，以下8種情況供你參考。沒有結果的愛，該放手還是盡快吧。　


　
一、你在乎對方比較多


　　你在談戀愛，卻不確定對方的想法；你覺得你們很合適，他好像不以為然；他不在時你很想他，你不在時他好像沒差別，這表示什麼？
　　　“二人若不同心，豈能同行呢？”有時候會有一方愛另一方較多的情形，若是在健全的感情中，會有交替的現象，兩人輪流扮演追求和被追求的角色；但如果 有一方總是扮演追求者，這樣的感情不健全，長久下去，你會對愛饑渴，你會覺得受對方控制，你會感到憤怒、受騙、痛苦。
　
　　二、你愛的是對方的潛力


　　你愛的是對方的潛力，而不是對方真正的樣子，你愛的是對方未來可能的樣子，那他根本不是你的伴侶，而是你改造的對象。


　　我們每次作婚前輔導都會問，如果對方五十年內都不會改變，你會滿意嗎？如果你一直希望能改變對方，才覺得比較滿意，那就不是愛，而是賭博，用雙方的快樂當作賭注。
　　　你跟一個人交往時，要愛和尊重對方的本相，而不是他未來的樣子，你可以期望他繼續成長，但你必須滿意他現在的樣子。


　　三、你想要幫助對方

　　　你常覺得對方很可憐嗎？你覺得自己有責任幫助對方振作起來嗎？你會不會害怕如果離開對方，他會受不了打擊？如果是，你恐怕是個“救難狂”。
　　　“救難狂”不會去找一個合適的對象，而是找一個他所同情、可以幫助的對象。找一個受過創傷、脆弱、依賴、不被愛、委屈的人，你由憐生愛，他會對你心生感激，這樣的感情像是一項救援任務，而不是健全、平衡的感情。


　　這裡要牢記的關鍵是“尊重”，你愛的對象必須是你能夠尊重的人，你必須以對方為榮，你的伴侶不要你的救援，而是要你真正了解他。
四、把對方當作崇拜的對象

　　　年輕的女明星愛上導演、大學生愛上教授、秘書愛上老板……，愛上所崇拜的對象，這種感情很難維持正常，因為兩人之間無法平等對待。

　　　男女雙方必須要平等對待，我不是指地位，而是態度，不能過度崇拜對方。會愛上所崇拜對象的人，通常自信心低落，他們覺得自己很糟糕。

　　　五、你只是被對方外表吸引

　　　每個人都會這樣，對嗎？如果你發現自己被對方的某個特質深深吸引，要問自己，若對方沒有那雙藍色的大眼睛、磁性的聲音……，若對方不是模特兒、不會打籃球……，我還會跟他(她)在一起嗎？男人外表才是第一生產力

　　　六、短暫朝夕相處的機會

　　　你和對方分擔某個工作，常常要一起加班，於是你覺得愛上了對方……。你去度假三周，認識一個也來度假的男人，你覺得好象墜入情網……。短暫的朝夕相 處，是指在特殊情況下湊在一塊，並不是常規，這種感情不能持久，因為短時間的朝夕相處，無法使你完全了解對方的個性。

　　　七、為了叛逆才選擇這對象

　　　父母老是跟你強調，要找個有錢的對象，偏偏你每個男朋友都是窮光蛋；從小父母就對你管教嚴格，偏偏你每個女朋友都很隨便；從小父親就耳提面命，傳香火是最重要的事，偏偏你的女朋友不是不能生，就是不想生……

　　　如果你所選的對象，老是令父母生氣，很可能你只是想叛逆，你覺得一定要證明什麼來反擊，當你不能控制自己的選擇，你並不是真心愛對方，這段感情注定沒有結果。

　　　八、對方不是自由身

　　　我把這點留到最後，是因為這根本不能算是感情。選擇終身伴侶的第一個前提是——對方是“自由身”。“自由身”就是可以自由和你交往，沒有結婚、沒有訂婚、沒有固定的交往對象、沒有和別人上床、單身，只和你交往的人。

　　　如果你愛上的那個男人答應會早點和另一個女人分手；或是他說他不愛那個女人，他愛的是你；或是他原來的對象接受你的存在，他們不打算分手，但他想跟你在一起一陣子；或是他剛分手，但可能破鏡重圓……，這些都不是自由身。

　　　別和已婚或有對象的人交往，不管是什麼借口，結果都一樣，你注定要心碎。別忘了，你只是接受了另一個人用剩的部分。

　　　選擇權在你手上，責任在你身上，你要選對人。如果你有交往的對象，而且你是上面談到的八種感情之一，去找輔導，別浪費時間，還有更好的對象在等你

头痛又头晕，开车的下场就是这样

生病头痛又头晕，开车的后果是这样的..判断力失误就连基本停车开窗拿泊车ticket都会造成这样..晕啊。

休息了三天，两个晚上终于出场啦...辛苦咯。还好完美无缺...

The truth hurt; the untold story is a beautiful lie

As you said,

"Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or
rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no
record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices
whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is
always
hopeful, and endures through every
circumstance."
爱是含忍的，爱是慈祥的，爱不嫉妒，不夸张，不自大

"Love is like 5 loaves & 2 fish, always too little until you start
giving it away"

You are asking for why, what kind of ending, looking forward to know the answer..you tell others it is better than become stupid not knowing the truth. But opposite, you really eager to know why..

Why i should not telling everything to you...as you know why i am not superman, i am just a Tree that can fall, fall with you..the most painful and hurtful thing doesn't necessary involve deception, it involve in telling the truth. Recall back the memorable wonderful time, when you get lost out my sight, i seek and find for you..when i cannot find you, i get nervous...it hurts, the pain never recover, scar and scratches leftover maybe not completely heal. You apologize and said sorry to me, i forgive and accept...i take it.

You see me giving up, you want me to fight for it ! : ..i don't know, i care..every words or sentences you said, i'll remember.

You see i am cruel: Yes, i do. I am cruel to myself & to you..you'll never understand such feeling

"Love is like 5 loaves & 2 fishes"
You see i am selfish that not willing to give heart and hard hearted, yes, i do..i am selfish that don't want to get myself hurt & injured..i rather bleed not to cry. In fact, I am a Control freak..i want it be in my control, i really care and can't imagine one day if you get away..

You see me i am not serious : When i am serious, i meant it, you doubt for it..The dangerous moment is when i am playful, nobody can change or control about me..

Tell me what should i do: your advice is to do whatever i like, i want..

I always said let the time tells, let the time proves everything..i'll give you time, you said the past history is over. I am happy, glad to know it but once again and again, you push me into swimming pool and let me drown, i don't know how to swim..i hold my breath, hold on until stop breathing.

Last but not least, i am just an ordinary pig..i come with the wind, wind blows me away..you may hate me...but i just want to be myself, be my own. I wish i could hide like a polar bear, hibernate for long long time not to act cruely..

Playing George Benson...nothing gonna change my love..

If I had to live my life without you near meThe days would all be emptyThe nights would seem
so longWith you I see
forever oh, so clearlyI might have been in love beforeBut it never felt
this strongOur dreams
are young and we both knowThey’ll take us where we want to goHold me now, touch me nowI don’t want to
live without you.Chorus 1Nothing's gonna change my love for youYou oughta know by now how
much I love youOne
thing you can be sure ofI’ll never ask for more than your love.Chorus
2Nothing’s gonna change my love for youYou ought to know by now how much I love youThe world may change my
whole life through but nothing’s gonna change mylove for you.If the road ahead is not so easyOur love will lead the
way for us like a guiding starI’ll be there for you if you should need meYou don’t have to change
a thingI love you
just the way you are.So come with me and share this viewI’ll help you see
forever tooHold me
now, touch me nowI
don’t want to live without you.

我就是我
泽

The truth hurts

27th-Feb-2011
I Lie awake at midnight, the night is dark and silent, i break the silence by burning the fuel; smoke the wheels; bad tire smell is something like fragrance that smells bad, I leave some skid marks on the ground, put on signature as memory on the tarmac road; tire screaming so noisy at night but no one can hear it. Nobody know it was me, all of a sudden, grip lost because of go beyond the limit, sitting down by the highway, looking down the road, don’t know where I’ve been, I pretend that everything will be fine, like a clown put on a show, I drive and drive, wishing I could Fly rather than drive or ride, wishing I could hide not to say good bye..

schumi